Wednesday 3 August 2016

GUARD YOUR HEART IN MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIPS.

GUARD YOUR HEART....IN MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIPS
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Ladies' Guard your heart with all diligence, out of it flows out the issues of life..proverbs 4:23. In one of our previous write ups; " The bone attraction". I made mention that after a while, all the feelings and outward appearances would give way, you are now left with the bone, the stuff your man is made up of, that 20/30 years after, you would still continually say I Do to him. Now in keeping the relationship with your man, lots of things are involved. Just like I said, after a while all the feelings would disappear, you start seeing each other faults and would you then say No am not doing, it's over?.

STOP COMPARISON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE

STOP COMPARISON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE
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Every relationship comes with it's own issue and challenges. The fact that Jc and Johnny are smiling throughout , and then Ifeoma and Ifeanyi are not even talking to each other in public, doesn't mean all things are right even in Jc and Johnny relationship. It just depends on how well we mange it. Stop Comparison, why? Because everything we need God knows and he has made it available to the man he gives to us. That is why we need to get God first. When you get God first, whatsoever others are running after, would begin to run after you.

MARRIAGE, LOVE AND SEX

Last time I discuss abojt fighting for love in marriage. Click this link to go through it.

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God created us to be happy people, and through this article it is hoped to enhance the expression of true love between husband and wife and dispel some unfounded fear. The abuse of physical sex has been the major thing that breaks marriage and reduces love between two people who truly love each other. Once the act of sex predominate love that exist between two couples, that means there is trouble on the way. This will make the couple to start substituting sex for real love in other to make things right in their life and their home. Without knowing that it is leading to their separation. For the couples to avoid this, they should understand that love feeds on personal intercourse, involving the whole person, not just on the physical act of sex.