"LIFE AFTER WEDDING DAY".
It s obvious now that Africans keep the wedding date than marriage life. There are two types of marriage today, "Those Enjoying their marriages and those Enduring it. Its not about Wedding day, its all about life after wedding day.
Many ladies that are legitimately dues for marriages are still remaining spinsters because of their Unnecessary demanding and traditions of their family. You keep on chasing men away from you with your Unnecessary demanding. I want handsome, tall, slim, light in complexion from GEJ family, working in Chevron, living in 3Bedroom flat, riding Lincoln Navigator, etc. You have been carefully selecting men at the age of 16, and till now, you never learn that NIGHT is gradually by gradually coming.
Many Pastors are not helping the issues today, Sir! I like sister Elizabeth, the next thing Man Of God would ask is... "Where do you work? Where do you live? How much do you have? We are killing God institutions instead of building it.
A brother walked to a sister with aims of been together, the sister said, hmmm mm, am a Graduate ooh, in my family, you'll have to build house for my mum 1st before you can marry me and buy whatever the family demanded. What and what did you want, the brother asked? you'll buy, 2 Fat Cow, 2 Boxes of Clothes, for me, my mum, my father, for Chiefs in my village. 20 Bags of Rice, Garri, Semo, 50 Cartoons of Gulder, Star, Small stout, 100 Creates of Minerals, 80 Wines, 100 Colanuts, Bitter-cola, 20 Kegs of Oil, wedding gown, wedding ring, engagement ring, wedding shoes, #200;000 for my bride price, and all necessary things demanded by my families. Sister! To be sincere....... You're not ready.
Its not about wedding day, its about life after wedding. Sister, "you don't need wedding gown to marry that brother, you don't need wedding rings, you don't need reception before you can marry that brother, Sister, you don't need to place a burden on that brother because he want to marry you. You don't need millions before you can start raise your own family. But you need just one thing, you need a Man (Cleric) who can stand in the gap of God to bless your union. Enough of Unnecessary Demanding all in the name of I DON'T WANT A LOW-KEY MARRIAGE Ooh.
Relationship means teamwork, you gotta help one another and look beyond ceremonial day.
Statistics shows clearly that, 86% of People with glamorous and flamboyance wedding never enjoyed their marriage. In Matt,24v38, Jesus said, people are marrying and given to marriage until Noah Entered the Ark unknowingly to them and Floods came and swept them all away. "There is nothing wrong in flamboyance marriage if you have the money, but there is a lot wrong in using your whole life planning wedding instead of communion with God at an expense of your Soul.
Jesus laid examples of simple marriages, Jesus never attended a flamboyant wedding, he only attended A Humble Beginning Wedding where their wines finished and God took the glory in their life.
In Gen,2v18, God said its not good for man to be alone, I will made a Helper that will be like him, in V23, And, Adam said, this is now my bone of bones, etc. "Sister, are you a Helper to that brother??? If you are a Child of God, you must not desires those worldly wedding you are seeing on TV, because many of those wedding, its the bride Sugar-Daddy that financed almost all.
Pst Olukoya of MFM once said, the best marriage he attended was the one the family did in their Parlor, they were 6 includen bride and groom, they bought 1 crate of mineral which they never finished BUT today, the man is Chairman of Multinational Company.
Sister, stop looking down on Men just because you want to satisfied your fleshly desires. The true marriage started the day you woke from your films of love and discovered the Man, the Woman you are living your life with.
The Pastor on the Pulpit ask indirectly if you're Ok! If you're not blind! If you're not fool! If you know what you're doing by accepting (so so & so) as your husband, as your wife in the presence of God and human, Once you said, I DO! No divorce. People in the world divorce but a genuine child of God must never divorce. IT IS A FOREVER-MORE whether the man is Devil, whether the woman is Delilah, It is Forever, Till Death Do Two Of You Part.. Many are in Hell and many will still go there because they married a man/woman of their choice instead of God choice for their life AND those people misleading them, distracting them from serving the true living God just like in the case of King Solomon.
Remember..... Its not about the Ceremonial day, Its all about life after your Ceremonial Noisy Day. The authenticity of wedding rings is doubtful, questionable and Unscriptural, so, Genuine Child Of God must desist from doing what the people in the world are doing. Why must you borrow this, borrow that, just because you want to marry? Let your marriage gives Glory to God my Sister.
Its not about spending 2yrs Planning wedding date, Its about the life you're going to live after your wedding day, the man/woman you look, choose and picked from the world will determine if you're going to Enjoying or Enduring your marriage life AND not only that, It will determined your Life After Death.
Choose Wisely. I Wish You The Best Shallom.
My husband and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when he got a new Job in NewYork 2 months ago. He has been avoiding my calls and told me he is working,i got suspicious when i saw a comment of a woman on his Facebook Picture and the way he replied her. I asked my husband about it and he told me that she is co-worker in his organization,We had a big argument and he has not been picking my calls,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James(Worldcyberhackers@gmail.com) a Private Investigator who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my husbands Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my husbands phone. where i found so many evidence and proof in his Text messages, Emails and pictures that my husband has an affairs with another woman.i have sent all the evidence to our lawyer. I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof for my lawyer,I Feel so sad about infidelity.
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