CHEATING
STOP CHEATING
You have nothing to gain from infidelity.
But you have so many things to loss from it.
You can enjoy your partner as you so desired, it is in your hands to make it work.
Yes! you may think that you are protecting your self from Sexual Transmitted Disease (STD) and unwanted pregnancy, but actually that protection can disappoint you and lead you into a miserable life.
The only Save way is to stick to your partner. Enjoy your life with your partner, while it last.
Do you know that, the gold you are looking for outside is right there with you inside your home. Is left for you to purify it and mould it the way you want it to be.
There is know advantage in cheating, but it has so many disadvantage.
Infidelity can only cause you:
Pain.
Intense guilt or depression in the person who has committed adultery.
Deep distress in the 'betrayed' partner.
Violence ( People still do sometimes kill unfaithful partners! )
Marriage break - up.
Unhappiness for the children of the people involved.
Acquiring a sexually transmitted disease (STD).
So if somebody has sex outside marriage, there's every chance that an STD can then be passed on to the spouse.
Accidental pregnancy.
These accidental pregnancies can cause absolute chaos! in particular if a wife becomes pregnant by another man, the reaction of her husband ( assuming he realises that the child is not his ) can be quite earth - shattering. These incident often destroy the marriage. On the other side, a man might find him self bringing up ( and paying for ) a baby that was not his own. Extramarital affair can also make the man to have children outside his marriage.
NB. There is no joy in broken home, but there is everlasting happiness in a united home. A happy marriage is possible, when two people involve agree to make it work.
No matter the challenge you are facing in your marriage, you can still overcome it and enjoy happy marriage.
It is all in your hands to make it work ( Both husband and wife).
Don't blame your partner for not having a happy marriage or relationship, but blame yourself, because some how you have failed to do the right thing.
You as a husband have you really love your wife as it should be?
You as a wife are you really submissive to your husband? (Ephesians 5: 21 - 33)
(Ephesians 5:21-33)
21 and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ.
22 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body.
24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her;
26 that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word,
27 that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she should be holy and blameless.
28 So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself;
29 for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes
and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 because we are members of His body.
31 For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh.
32 This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church.
33 Nevertheless let each individual among you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see to it that she respect her husband.
The only institution made by God is marriage. He is the founder.
Happy marriage, Happy family, Happy life.
Let's join hands together and make it Work.
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